self–pity 
/ˈsɛlfˈpɪti/ noun
/ˈsɛlfˈpɪti/ noun [noncount] disapproving : a feeling of pity for yourself because you believe you have suffered more than is fair or reasonable
▪ He was wallowing in self-pity. ▪ She spoke without a trace/hint of self-pity.
▪ He was wallowing in self-pity. ▪ She spoke without a trace/hint of self-pity.
— self–pity·ing /ˈsɛlfˈpɪtijɪŋ/ adjective
▪ a self-pitying complainer
/ˈsɛlfˈpɪtijɪŋ/ adjective ▪ a self-pitying complainer
