[noncount] usually disapproving: the attitude or actions of a person, organization, etc., that protects people and gives them what they need but does not give them any responsibility or freedom of choice
— pa·ter·nal·ist/pəˈtɚnəlɪst/orpa·ter·nal·is·tic/pəˌtɚnəˈlɪstɪk/adjective ▪ They resent the boss's paternalistic attitude.