Learner's definition of RECONCILE
to find a way of making (two different ideas, facts, etc.) exist or be true at the same time
I'm afraid her story cannot be reconciled with the proven facts. [=her story must be false because it does not agree with the proven facts]
You'll need to reconcile [=settle] your differences with her.
It can be difficult to reconcile your ideals with reality.
to cause people or groups to become friendly again after an argument or disagreement
— often used as (be) reconciled
reconcile (someone) to (something)
to cause (someone) to accept (something unpleasant)